In this type of sexuality, there is a relationship understanding based on the bond of slave and master. But of course, it is possible to say that it is not only about this. BDSM stands for bondage, domination, domination, and sadism-masochism.
If there are any of you who shudder when reading these concepts, I asked someone who knows the subject so that you can develop a different perspective on this subject, and he answered the questions with great pleasure.
Here are the answers of a 40-year-old male individual who is at the master’s level and adopts the philosophy of this relationship…
At the end of the content you will be able to read what science has to say about BDSM.
BDSM is a form of relationship that includes sexual pleasure and satisfaction at its center, but expands the boundaries of the act of lovemaking.
What the parties do to achieve maximum mental and physical pleasure and satisfaction; It is a sexual experience in which they define their boundaries and rules together. In this experience, people experience pain, fear, uncertainty, etc., thanks to physical and mental stimuli. They feed positively on the impulsiveness of emotions.
In men, the party holding the mechanisms such as power, reward, punishment and satisfaction is the master (master), while in women (mistress) it is the female master.
These persons are the party that directs the act of creating mutual pleasure between persons by applying these mechanisms. The slave, on the other hand, is the one who obeys and can direct the sharing using only safe words. As you can see, the difference is not being a woman or a man, but a master and a slave. There is no gender discrimination for either. As a result, one implements what he has to do as the decision maker, and the other does what he has to do by obedience.
Mastery is a concept dependent on mutual satisfaction.
In fact, this feeling is something that can be achieved step by step, not by coercion, but by obtaining mutual satisfaction. However, this power within the rules (which does not even meet the satisfaction experienced) is a form of acceptance and approval, which makes you always wonder what’s inside and makes you feel like opening gift packages.
The concepts of the strong and the weak are just a result…
The emotion that builds this form of relationship is to be visible in the eyes of the other and to get his approval. Of course, if we leave out the sexual attraction, which provides the beginning and continuity of the union…
BDSM is like gluing the id and ego together.
In fact, we are talking about an individual who satisfies the demands of the id with his own reality. I mean, like “is this really possible”. Reply; yes, it is possible but not entirely possible. This is an unusual situation that can occur with a very high sexual and emotional attraction. Also, only another special person who can redefine the word satisfaction in one’s mind can provide it. It must be love too…
The purpose of the slaves is to be accepted and completed every time. By finally surrendering and defining themselves as such; They admire the mystery associated with the obedience mechanism. And slaves take delight in giving pleasure to a master who unleashes their mixed emotions in ways they can’t resist.
Sadism and masochism are emotions that fuel the desired mental, emotional, and biological orgasm.
We can also say that it is an area where the parties feel that they can “liberate” the sense of lust in them. This situation awakens impulses that appear to be an integration of bullying-helplessness but actually reveal maximum satisfaction as a result of expectations.
This may sound a little complicated to understand. Let me explain it this way: The important thing here is harmony and harmony. So it’s not just one side that sets the boundaries. Sacrifices, gestures or internal behaviors made for the satisfaction of the other party create a sexual attraction that will please both parties; The name or reaction of someone who looks at this sharing from the outside may change. What I mean is that no matter what kind of sharing there is between the parties, an invisible equality should be ensured. So a classic sex can also be an unforgettable experience in this form of relationship.
BDSM is more of an experiential transfer.
This actually diversifies the results. A choice is formed by experiencing or observing it, and then one develops a commitment to it. It’s less common for anyone to come across this and develop this behavior. Often you can see individuals who have had too many normal experiences and have chosen this experience to be more different and more fulfilled. This causes it to be a more common form of relationship among people who have reached professional, cultural and material satisfaction.
Pleasure and punishment are phenomena governed by the dominant master.
The master practices something for pleasure, which can give pleasure or pain to the other party. The Master thinks or wishes that something is wrong; can punish by changing the size of the act of pleasure. Again, this can turn into pleasure, sometimes as a direct sense of pleasure, and sometimes as a metaphor of deserving and reaching a reward. Here, if punishments exceed certain limits, obedience can use safe words to mitigate the punishment or cut it completely…
Here’s what science has to say on the subject…
According to psychopathological and psychoanalytic assessments of BDSM in one study, this is due to potential mental health problems, unhealthy obsessions with certain sexual behaviors, and/or childhood trauma. It is stated that fantasies about this subject are common in both men and women.
In fact, studies have shown that those who experience BDSM are modern, well-educated and well-groomed people. Studies mention that this situation occurs because the person does not want to focus on a particular area of interest in sexuality and wants to develop different sexual behaviors. In another study by psychologists, it is stated that BDSM may be a recreational leisure activity rather than a psychopathological issue.
So what do you think about BDSM?
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