Unfortunately, sexual problems are not talked about much in our country and in the world, and everyone acts as if they have a great sex life. Let’s face it, such a thing is unlikely. Especially in today’s stressful world, it is known that men often have problems with premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, but they do not consult a specialist because they are afraid. This is why so many urban legends circulate about such matters.
In an article on the Boston Medical Group website, misconceptions about premature ejaculation were discussed and scientists’ correct answers were given. It is always better to listen to expert opinions on such matters rather than urban legends and gossip. Let’s take a closer look at the well-known misconceptions about premature ejaculation and the truth of the matter.
Common misconceptions about premature ejaculation:
- Premature ejaculation cannot be controlled.
- Premature ejaculation is purely psychological.
- Alcohol, drugs and antidepressants prevent premature ejaculation.
- Delay sprays prevent premature ejaculation.
- There is no relationship between premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction.
- Premature ejaculation does not adversely affect sexual life.
- Premature ejaculation does not affect one’s self-confidence.
Uncontrollable premature ejaculation:
The basic definition of premature ejaculation is when a man ejaculates in less than a minute during sexual intercourse, unable to control ejaculation. So even looking at the definition, premature ejaculation seems to be controllable. Just as we can delay our toilet need by bladder control, this is also possible in premature ejaculation.
Of course, it’s not a simple thing to learn in a few days. There are many exercises you can practice on the subject. For such exercises, men need to have a regular and safe sex life. You should put aside the daily worries and focus on the moment and be with the right partner. Just as it develops a muscle group, premature ejaculation can be controlled.
Premature ejaculation is purely psychological:
Although one of the main causes of premature ejaculation is psychological problems, it is not the only reason. Especially in circumcised penises, there is a condition called glans sensitivity, which causes premature ejaculation. A condition called low ejaculation threshold is also known to cause premature ejaculation. So the issue may not always be psychological.
Alcohol, drugs and antidepressants prevent premature ejaculation:
Men who use these types of substances regularly experience an inability to ejaculate over time, which can be a much worse problem. And these problems do not end with the inability to ejaculate. In men who use such substances for a long time, it is inevitable that the problem of erectile dysfunction will arise. In short, you may lose your health while trying to save the day.
Delay sprays prevent premature ejaculation:
True, delay sprays prevent premature ejaculation because you don’t feel anything. Not only the man, but also the woman does not feel anything, because delay sprays numb not only the penis, but also the vagina. Continuous use prevents men from getting used to long-term sex and causes premature ejaculation if not used. In other words, it is recommended to stay away from such sprays for the control we have explained in the first article.
There is no relationship between premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction:
Many people believe that erectile dysfunction, that is, erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, are completely unrelated problems and will not affect each other. Let’s put it this way, if you ejaculate prematurely, you will soon have an erection problem. Because one of the most important symptoms of erectile dysfunction is premature ejaculation. In other words, you should see premature ejaculation not only as a performance problem, but as a health problem.
Premature ejaculation does not negatively affect sexual life:
It is impossible for a man with premature ejaculation problem to let go of himself during sexual intercourse and enjoy the moment. Inevitably, he will constantly think about whether he can satisfy his partner. As long as such thoughts continue, the man will gradually turn away from sex and even avoid intimacy. In other words, premature ejaculation will negatively affect both sexual life and daily life.
Premature ejaculation doesn’t affect a person’s self-esteem:
We’ve built cities, built civilizations, traveled to space, but unfortunately, sex has nothing to do with it. Sex is one of our most primitive urges and it is a psychological fact that a man who sees himself inadequate in terms of sexual performance cannot have high self-confidence.
So what to do?
Let us remind you that even if all we have told are facts based on scientific studies, they are for informational purposes only and the biological structure of each individual is unique. In other words, what is described may reflect you exactly, but may not be remotely related to the problem you are experiencing.
If you think that premature ejaculation really affects your sexual and social life negatively, you should consult a specialist as soon as possible and tell your problem without hesitation. The problem of premature ejaculation can be solved with surgical methods, medication, sex therapy and psychological counseling.
There are many different diseases that can cause premature ejaculation, just like erectile dysfunction. When you consult a specialist, tests will be done to see if you have one of these diseases. In other words, the problem may not only be related to your sexual health, but also directly to your physical health. However, the common advice of all experts is to enjoy the moment without getting too stressed. Reducing the stress level is the main solution to many problems.
We talked about premature ejaculation, one of the most common sexual problems among men, about the well-known misconceptions and the truth according to science. Do not try to try one of the so-called treatment methods among the people without consulting a specialist. When you try to find a solution, you can enlarge the problem even more.
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